"Wisdom is knowing what to do next,
skill is knowing how to do it,
and virtue is doing it."
-David Starr Jordan
Getting Quickly from Where You Are to Where You Want to Be
Training mental skills must begin with a distinct understanding of how to have mature approaches and responses to your sport, both in practice and in performance. Consciously creating an ideal performance state takes it to the next level. Elite athletes build up their confidence on purpose, they manage their stress and adrenaline, and they focus superbly on the task-at-hand. Knowing where you are and where you want to be are two challenging awareness skills, but knowing is not enough. To give your best effort, you must also have an effective strategy to get from here to there.
For a cue to have a significant positive impact, it must lead you in the right direction at the right time. To take you to an ideal performance state, you must know what you are like in your ideal state. (I call these your green light indicators.) For example, you might perform best in a particular situation when you're confident, intense, aggressive under control, grateful, relaxed, focused, having fun, and feeling like you have something to prove. Once defined, you can pick a cue to lead towards any or all of these attitudes and physiologies. If it does so naturally, great. If it has to be built to cue the right things, that can be done, too. Examples: the American flag could be used to remind you to be grateful for this opportunity and to have fun. A sign with team colors may remind you of your team's mission, what you have to prove, and to be aggressive. A wristband that says, "Best effort one play at a time" may remind you to be focused and intense. A little foam stress toilet may help you to focus and stay confident by "flushing it" when something bad happens. The self-talk "just do what I always do" may remind you to be confident in his preparation and to relax. An image of your mother and the sacrifices she's made for you may promote relaxation and self-control while reminding you that you have a lot to prove because your mother taught you that your best effort is always good enough.
All these cues sound great, but they won't do any good if you don't remember to use them when you need them. You can use them as part of a routine, therefore making sure that you don't forget something important to your mental preparation. Or, you can remember to check your "traffic light" indicators at certain pre-planned points during a contest to see if you are off track. Or, you can depend on your instincts to tell you that you're off track. Once you recognize the indicators of a"red" or "yellow light," actively gather yourself back to green by employing a cue that you've already planned for this challenging situation. These awareness and gathering strategies are sophisticated skills, but giving a best effort performance is a sophisticated goal. If you're ready to take luck out of the equation as much as possible, it's time to use cues to help you create an ideal performance state!